Parish of Buxted and Hadlow Down
28th March – Palm Sunday
8:00 am Holy Communion – St. Margaret’s
9:00 am Holy Communion – St. Mark’s
10.00 am Holy Communion – St. Margaret’s
11:15 am Holy Communion – St. Mary’s
31st March – Wednesday of Holy Week
11:00 am Stations of the Cross – St. Mary’s
1st April – Thursday of Holy Week
7:00 pm Holy Communion & Stripping of the Altar – St. Mark’s
2nd April – Good Friday
3:00 pm Celebration of the Lord’s Passion – St. Mary’s
6:00 pm Good Friday Service of Words and Music – St. Margaret’s
3rd April – Holy Saturday
7:30pm Easter Vigil – St. Mary’s
4th April – Easter Sunday
8:00 am Holy Communion – St. Margaret’s
9:00 am Holy Communion – St. Mark’s
10:00 am Holy Communion – St. Margaret’s
This new village event dates from May 2018, when our Community Garden at the rear of the church was opened by the Archdeacon of Hastings. We resolved at that time to stage an Open Day and Craft Fair each year during the second week of May.
The 2020 event was all ‘good to go’, with some new local sponsors and a wide range of craft stalls and exhibitors all booked. We were of course not able to go ahead due to the lockdown restrictions.
So what are the plans for this year? We have set a provisional date for Saturday 14th May.
I have recently contacted all concerned, and explained that soon after Easter we will review the situation as regards government guidance, and also conduct our own risk assessment. As the event largely takes place out of doors, the prospects are perhaps more encouraging. Everyone seems to understand that we have to ‘wait and see’, but also that a large scale event like ours needs a fair amount of forward planning by all concerned.
If we are able to go ahead, we will have a working forge, a potter’s wheel, and craft stalls in the church hall and garden. Wally the Steam engine will be coming down from Tinker’s Park, along with the miniature railway and fairground organ. The popular Harvey’s Beer Tent will again be in business up in the Top Field. The church will be looking its best, and there will be an hour’s organ recital at some point during the afternoon.
We welcome two new local business sponsors this year – Crusader Vehicles and Weald Packaging.
So at this stage it’s ‘fingers crossed’, with more updates to follow.
The following is my tribute to Norman Longley who died in December.
Norman Charles Longley
23rd November 1933 – 12th December 2020
Norman was a very private man and little is known of his early life. He and his wife Joan spent most of their married life in Carshalton, where they raised their daughters Caroline and Sarah. Norman’s career was in banking and it wasn’t until he retired that the family moved to Ridgewood. Having been loyal members of their local church in Carshalton, Joan and Norman were keen to find a spiritual home in East Sussex and were thrilled when they discovered S. Mary’s. They quickly immersed themselves into parish life, becoming active members of the PCC and the Walsingham Cell. Norman used his banking skills as Parish Treasurer and took his duties as Deputy Churchwarden very seriously.
I first met Norman when I moved to the parish in 2009, and my feet weren’t allowed to touch the ground! He got me involved with all aspects of life at
S. Mary’s, and I eventually joined him as a fellow Deputy Churchwarden. I have him to thank for assisting me in the process of reintroducing pilgrimages to
Joan and Norman had been almost inseparable, yet when Joan died in 2015 Norman seemed to cope remarkably well. Despite his own failing health, he was always positive and cheerful, never more so when talking about his grandchildren. Norman believed that life is meant to be shared with others, and that life is at its brightest and best when lived in the service of others. Service is love made visible. Norman encapsulated that service and faithfulness, even enquiring after the health of others during the first ‘lockdown’, when his own life was drawing to a close.
Sadly, we were unable to fulfil Norman’s wishes for a Funeral Mass in church. A Requiem Mass will be held at S. Mary’s as soon as restrictions are lifted.
May he rest in peace.
We have a vaccine! Rejoice and be merry – but not just yet! Christmas came and we celebrated the best we could under the circumstances. The year 2020 has gone, and will probably go down in history as a year we would wish to forget, even though it will be remembered for many different reasons. March (and again in November) saw the closure of our churches for the first time since the early 13th century. I was moved to read an article recently, from a priest who said:
‘When I closed and locked the doors of the church I knelt down in a pew and cried. People come hear to pray, to give thanks, to share their fears and their joys. But now the House of God is locked up and there are no services there…… I think of the day when I shall take the key and unlock the doors, and the people will come in again – and they will see that all along, the light was burning in the darkness. That God was there with us all the time’.
The perpetual Blessed Sanctuary lamp at S. Mary’s continues to burn in the darkness as a sign of the Presence of Our Lord, and in the knowledge that He has not deserted us, nor we Him.
Fr. Hope Patten was assistant curate here at S. Mary’s from 1919 to 1921. This month we celebrate the centenary of his appointment as Parish Priest of
S. Mary’s, Walsingham in Norfolk, where he became instrumental in restoring the Shrine of Our Lady. During his time in Buxted he worked closely with the nuns of The Community of The Blessed Virgin Mary; helping the homeless, and all those suffering as a result of the last pandemic – 1918-20. In those days there was no NHS, but one could imagine that after four years of war the local people were only too happy to ‘Clap for the Nuns’ who were working tirelessly to help relieve those suffering from ‘Spanish Flu’.
Due to the restrictions last month we were unable to sing our favourite Carols, only hum them through our masks. However, although we may not be at the end of this terrible pandemic, with a vaccine, we are, I feel sure, at the beginning of the end. I am reminded of the chorus from the Christmas Carol ‘God rest you merry Gentlemen’:
O tidings of comfort and joy,
comfort and joy!
O tidings of comfort and joy!
May Jesus Christ and the hope he brings, give you ‘comfort and joy’ in 2021.
Elizabeth Winifred Burditt
It is with sadness that we announce the death of Elizabeth Burditt on 8th December 2020, at the age of 99. Elizabeth had been a stalwart of S. Mary’s for many years and played an active part in Church life, the Walsingham Cell and the wider parish.
She will be sorely missed. May she rest in peace and rise in glory.
Elizabeth’s funeral will be held at S. Mary’s on Wednesday 6th January at 1.00 p.m.
However, at the time of writing it is anticipated that numbers attending will be limited. Please see the parish news letter for that week.
Just before Christmas we lost two stalwarts of S. Mary’s. The following is my tribute to Elizabeth Burditt. Next month I will produce a tribute to Norman Longley.
Elizabeth Winifred Burditt
11th July 1921 – 8th December 2020
Elizabeth’s early life was marred with tragedy, born in Swansea, both of her parents died leaving her orphaned at the age of 9. Brought up by her uncle, this early upbringing instilled a strong sense of self survival and determination which endured throughout her life.
When I first met Elizabeth in 2009, it didn’t take long for us to get onto the subject of travel – a passion that both of us shared. In 1947 Elizabeth, her husband (he worked for British American Tobacco) and their daughter Zanne moved to the Far East. Bangkok was the first posting, followed by Singapore, Kuala Lumpur and Colombo. Having been posted to the Far East myself in 1969, we spent many hours reminiscing (usually over a glass or two of Tio Pepe) about that beautiful part of the world. When I returned for a holiday in 2016, Elizabeth insisted I visit places known to her, and was keen to hear of the changes, especially in Singapore, where two of her children (Jane and David) were born. She was amused that little appeared to have changed in Bangkok and Colombo!
Elizabeth had a wonderful command of the English language and had originally trained as a teacher. While in Singapore she became the voice of the BBC Far Eastern Station, and due to the poor communications in those days, had the privilege of reading the Queen’s Christmas message over the air each year. Elizabeth was a prolific writer and always kept Journal – knowing her sense of humour, I imagine this makes for very interesting reading! Upon returning to the UK, Elizabeth resumed her teaching and became Principal of Eastbourne College of Domestic Economy.
Eventually settling in Buxted (her home for over 55 years), Elizabeth became an active member of S. Mary’s. A member of the PCC and the Walsingham Cell, she always enjoyed the Cell House Group and would, when it was her turn to host the group, always provided ‘proper’ coffee and an endless supply of chocolate/ginger biscuits. When Elizabeth’s mobility started to fail she was determined to continue playing hostess to the Cell, and was extremely grateful to receive House Communion from Fr. David until the pandemic restrictions made this impossible.
May she rest in peace.
With grateful thanks to David Burditt for filling in the gaps.
NEWS FROM S. MARY’S
As an interior designer I have often been told that I am obsessed with colour. Although I would not consider myself a ‘fashionista’ I make no apology for liking colour. In fact, I believe we should be brave and creative with colour, not just when decorating our homes or buying new clothes, but in our churches and especially in our worship.
100 years ago the interior of S. Mary’s was saturated with colour, and the murals bursting with pattern. Statues of the saints, elaborate friezes of vines and pomegranates from floor to ceiling, all emblazoned in bright colours. It would certainly have had the WOW factor, although even I would be tempted to say, ‘a little OTT’! The recently revealed mural on the east wall, only provides a hint of what the original must have looked like.
One afternoon during lockdown I carried out the daily security check at S. Mary’s and was amazed at the kaleidoscope of colours dancing across the walls of the Nave, created by the late afternoon sun shining through the west window and picking out the various colours from the stained glass – I wish you could have seen this spectacular sight.
Colour is not a new phenomenon within the Church. The Church seasons are represented by altar frontals and priest’s vestments in different colours: Purple (changing to Rose Pink for one Sunday in Lent and Advent), White/Gold, Red, and Green. Black can be introduced for funerals. There are also many references in the bible, far too many to mention here. Probably the most well known being the rainbow of seven colours (Red, Orange, Yellow, Green, Blue, Indigo and Violet), sent as a sign by God to Noah, that He would never again destroy the earth (Genesis 9:13). Then there’s Joseph’s coat of many colours, yes – that ‘amazing techni-coloured dreamcoat’! (Genesis 37:3) Other references I have found (and I am sure you can find more), some with conflicting symbolism are: Red – for blood and wine. Green – for new life/growth (also frailty and disease). Blue – for heaven and all that is holy (I’m reminded that blue is my favourite colour), it also represents vanity, whores and idolatry!!! Purple – for royalty and riches. White – for purity and righteousness. Yellow – for the colour of gold (also for leprosy). Grey – for the beauty of old age (also for weakness). Etc., etc., and to think that the Church is sometimes referred to as being bland and colourless.
The rainbow is the Christian symbol for hope and has been adopted as a symbol of support for the NHS during this period of the Coronavirus. With this symbol and the colours represented, we hope and pray that we will soon be lifted from this Grey cloud that hangs over the world. Colours make people smile and smiling is infectious. I look forward to seeing you all in your brightest colours as we approach the season of Advent.
Now the bright Red maple leaf has descended upon the rectory, we welcome Fr. Peter and his family to the parish. I am sure they will brighten our churches and worship with their own splash of colour – or should it be color?